The term “regulation” refers to the processes used to manage, control, or influence a system to achieve a desired outcome. The concept can apply to various contexts, such as :
- Sensory Regulation
- Emotional Regulation
- Behavioral Regulation
- Systems Regulations:
- Regulatory Policies
Regulation involves setting standards, monitoring performance, and making adjustments to maintain balance, stability, or desired outcomes, whether literally or in a more holistic way.

It will come as no surprise that for the focuses of this space, we will be focusing on emotional, behavioral, and sensory regulation. So, let’s explore those.
Sensory Regulation
Sensory regulation refers to the process of managing and responding to sensory input from the environment in a way that supports functioning and well-being. It involves the ability to perceive, interpret, and respond to sensory stimuli (like sights, sounds, textures, and smells) in a balanced manner. It should be noted, when we say “balanced”, this can often be interpreted as “expected” or “socially appropriate” which shouldn’t be the objective for reasons we will get into in future blog posts.
Sensory regulation might involve:
- Managing Overstimulation: Finding ways to cope with or reduce excessive sensory input that can be overwhelming or distressing.
- Seeking Sensory Input: Engaging in activities that provide the right amount of sensory stimulation to meet one’s needs, like seeking out calming or stimulating experiences as needed.
- Adapting Responses: Adjusting one’s behavior or environment to better handle sensory input, such as using noise-canceling headphones in a noisy environment.
Effective sensory regulation is crucial for maintaining emotional balance, focus, and overall well-being. It’s often discussed in the context of sensory processing disorders, autism, and other conditions where sensory input can be experienced differently. However, everyone uses sensory regulation strategies to some extent, whether consciously or unconsciously. Again, we will get more into this as we continue on in our learning journey!

Emotional Regulation
Emotional regulation is the process of managing and responding to one’s emotions in a way that helps maintain emotional balance and well-being. It involves recognizing, understanding, and effectively handling emotions to adapt to various situations. Emotional regulation can include:
- Awareness: Identifying one’s emotions.
- Understanding: Understanding the reasons behind emotions and their influence on thoughts and behaviors.
- Coping Strategies: Managing emotions constructively through techniques such as:
- Cognitive Reframing: Changing the way one thinks about a situation to alter its emotional impact.
- Mindfulness: Staying present and observing emotions without judgment.
- Problem-Solving: Addressing the issues causing the emotions in a practical way.
- Relaxation Techniques: Engaging in activities like deep breathing, meditation, or progressive muscle relaxation to calm oneself.
4. Expression: Finding “appropriate” ways to express emotions. Note I emphasize appropriate due to its subjective nature, however for the purposes of this space, appropriate can include any behavior that keeps the person and others safe. This can involve talking about feelings with others, engaging in creative outlets, or physical activity.
5. Self-Regulation: Monitoring and adjusting one’s emotional responses to remain calm and focused, especially in challenging situations.
Effective emotional regulation can lead to better mental health, improved relationships, and more adaptive coping strategies. It helps individuals navigate life’s ups and downs while maintaining a sense of balance and well-being.
Behavioral Regulation
Behavioral regulation involves managing and controlling one’s actions and behaviors to achieve specific goals or adhere to societal norms and expectations. It is a key aspect of self-control and involves the following components:
- Self-Monitoring: Keeping track of one’s own behavior and how it aligns with personal goals or standards. This includes recognizing when one’s behavior is deviating from desired outcomes. I have strategies for this!
- Goal Setting: Establishing clear, achievable objectives for behavior. This might involve setting short-term and long-term goals and developing plans to reach them. I also have strategies for this!
- Impulse Control: Managing reactive behaviors to make decisions that are in line with long-term goals or social expectations. This involves delaying gratification and resisting temptations. Even more strategies for this too!
- Behavioral Strategies: Implementing techniques to modify behavior, such as:
- Reward Systems: Using positive reinforcement to encourage desirable behaviors. You guessed it: got resources for you!
- Punishment: Applying consequences to discourage unwanted behaviors. We’ll talk more about this too!
- Behavioral Contracts: Creating agreements with oneself or others to adhere to specific behavioral expectations. I bet you can guess who has tips for this…
- Adaptive Responses: Adjusting one’s behavior in response to feedback or changing circumstances. This includes being flexible and modifying actions based on situational demands. You can guess where this is going…
- Emotional Regulation: Managing emotions that can influence behavior. For instance, handling frustration or stress to prevent impulsive or maladaptive actions. Do I need to say it again? I got you!!!
Effective behavioral regulation helps individuals make thoughtful decisions, maintain productive habits, and interact appropriately within social contexts. It is crucial for personal development, achieving goals, and maintaining healthy relationships.
What Does This Mean for Us?
Self-Regulation (sensory, behavioral, or emotional) is crucial for living meaningful, safe, and healthy lives. Learning how to manage our regulatory systems is a must to improve our quality of life. Stay tuned for how you can incorporate tips and strategies for yourself, your loved ones, your environment!

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